Episodes

Let us know what you think about this episode or send us an idea! What happens when your job title becomes your identity? In this episode, Ryan and Vic unpack the modern trap of defining yourself by your career — and what it takes to find a deeper sense of purpose and fulfillment beyond work. They explore how brand prestige and job titles can quietly shape our self-worth, share personal experiences from Nike, Google, and Amazon, and bring in psychology research that explains why we cling so tig...

Let us know what you think about this episode or send us an idea! What does it really mean to lead with kindness? And how is kindness different from simply being nice—or even from care? In this episode of Go Coach Yourself, Ryan and Vic sit down with friend and colleague Sue Brisbois, founder of Brizboy Works, to explore how curiosity, problem-solving, and kindness intersect in both work and life. Sue shares her philosophy of falling in love with the problem, not the solution, how curiosity ca...

Let us know what you think about this episode or send us an idea! In this summer short, Ryan shares the story of a 400-square-foot cabin in Landers, California that became an unexpected stepping stone to something bigger. What started as a real estate investment and side hustle turned into a transformative experience that ultimately led Ryan and his husband to make an even bolder leap to Spain. Main Takeaways Dreams can evolve and serve as preparation for bigger opportunities Sometimes the bra...

Let us know what you think about this episode or send us an idea! In this Summer Shorts episode of Go Coach Yourself!, join hosts Ryan and Vic as they explore the power of words and how a small gesture can leave a lasting impression. They discuss the importance of being intentional with your words and how they shape future connections and friendships. Tune in for an inspiring conversation filled with personal revelations and valuable insights on the impact of what we say. Don't miss out on ano...

Let us know what you think about this episode or send us an idea! In this summer short, Ryan shares his journey from avoiding advanced Sudoku puzzles to embracing them, revealing powerful lessons about growth mindset and the transformative power of adding "yet" to our limitations. What starts as a story about number grids becomes a coaching metaphor about moving from unconscious incompetence to conscious competence. Key Takeaways The difference between "I can't do this" and "I can't do this, ye...

Let us know what you think about this episode or send us an idea! In this Summer Shorts episode of Go Coach Yourself! Vic share a personal story about being heckled during a work event and being unable to respond appropriately in the moment. What this story highlights: How reacting without thinking can impact how we see ourselves and how others experience us. Pulling on Viktor Frankl's work of creating space between the stimulus and response, Ryan and Vic talk about how to create space to rea...

Let us know what you think about this episode or send us an idea! In this Summer Short, Ryan shares a transformative practice that changed how he relates to time and lateness. What started as a simple experiment became a lasting mindset shift that turned everyday frustrations into opportunities. Key Takeaways: Reframe delays and cancellations as "time given back" rather than time stolen Track how much time you give versus how much you receive to shift from scarcity to abundance mindset Build ...

Let us know what you think about this episode or send us an idea! In this Summer Short, Vic shares a powerful story about how journaling helped her navigate a toxic work situation when her intuition was telling her something was wrong, but she couldn't quite put her finger on what it was. What You'll Learn: How to use journaling as a conversation with yourself to unlock insights The difference between talking things out with friends vs. writing without filters Key questions to ask when someth...

Let us know what you think about this episode or send us an idea! In this heartwarming summer short, Vic shares how a surprise pottery class organized by her Nike team in Amsterdam became a life-changing experience that shifted her entire perspective on failure, growth, and untapped potential. Key Highlights The Surprise: Vic's dream team at Nike organized a pottery "leaving do" as her farewell celebration The Challenge: Trying something completely new at 40 years old and embracing the discomf...

Let us know what you think about this episode or send us an idea! What if doing something just to prove you can is reason enough? In this Summer Short, Ryan shares the story of how — with no grand plan, no spiritual quest, and no real justification — he decided to walk the Camino de Santiago, a 500-mile pilgrimage across Spain. What started as a personal challenge turned into something bigger: a lesson in trust, a practice of presence, and an invitation to stop needing a reason for everything ...

Let us know what you think about this episode or send us an idea! How a 65-foot evergreen helped us break the rules—and make the right choice. In this Summer Short, Ryan shares a personal story about buying a house that broke every rule on their must-have list—except one. It was the only home that made them feel something. At the center of this decision? A towering evergreen tree, a surprising emotional compass, and the lesson that sometimes the best choices don’t check the boxes—they shift you...

Let us know what you think about this episode or send us an idea! Vic and Ryan explore how a little bit of woo woo goes a long way. In this Summer Shorts episode Vic talks about how she uses her tarot deck to answer questions and provide guidance on current questions. This episode highlights how tools like tarot can offer new perspectives and validation. Emphasizing the importance of intentional questions and open-mindedness, the episode encourages listeners to seek different sources of informa...

Let us know what you think about this episode or send us an idea! What if the life you want is just one small step away? In this short summer episode, Vic tells the story of a single pistol squat that changed her perspective—not just on movement, but on what’s possible when we stop saying “I can’t.” Over two years of slow, steady work led to a breakthrough moment at the gym. But this story isn’t about fitness. It’s about fear, trust, and how our smallest choices can become catalysts for bigger c...

Let us know what you think about this episode or send us an idea! What happens when your body panics, your brain spirals, and your self-talk turns unkind? In this Summer Short, Vic shares a vulnerable (and yes, a little traumatic) story about a failed MRI attempt that led to an unexpected but powerful reflection on the stories we tell ourselves when things don’t go as planned. What begins as a medical mishap turns into a conversation about shame, self-advocacy, and reframing hard moments with c...

Let us know what you think about this episode or send us an idea! This episode is part of Vic and Ryan's Go Coach Yourself! Summer Shorts Series: shorter episodes with off the cuff conversations, where they share a personal story, unpack it and then share their learnings. In this Summer Short episode Ryan shares how going through Ignite The Spark created an opportunity for him to think bigger: about his goals, his career, and ultimately, his life. Spend the next 12 minutes with Ryan and Vic to...

Let us know what you think about this episode or send us an idea! This episode is part of Vic and Ryan's Go Coach Yourself! Summer Shorts Series: shorter episodes with off the cuff conversations, where they share a personal story, unpack it and then share their learnings. In this Summer Short episode Ryan shares how his progression from bird watching to bird noticing sparked a ripple effect involving $624 of peanuts, a board game and more meaningful moments. Spend the next 13 minutes with them...

Let us know what you think about this episode or send us an idea! In this episode of Go Coach Yourself!, hosts Vic and Ryan discuss the concept of the emotional bank account, coined by Stephen Covey in 'The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People' and further explored by John and Julie Gottman. The metaphor illustrates how trust in relationships is built through positive interactions (deposits) and can be diminished by negative ones (withdrawals). They emphasize the importance of everyday small...

Let us know what you think about this episode or send us an idea! Leaving a toxic job is hard. But leaving a great job? That’s a whole different kind of hard. In this episode of Go Coach Yourself!, Vic and Ryan unpack the uncomfortable truth that sometimes, even good jobs aren’t right jobs. They share their own experiences of walking away from solid roles at Nike—not because of burnout, but because of quiet misalignment. From the subtle signals your body sends, to the deeper questions about val...

Let us know what you think about this episode or send us an idea! How much agency do you have - and how are you using it? In this episode of 'Go Coach Yourself,' certified coaches Ryan and Vic explore the concept of reclaiming your agency to create the life you desire. They delve into the definitions of autonomy and agency, discuss the psychological theories that emphasize the importance of choice, and share personal stories and examples. They offer actionable tips like reframing your thoughts ...

Let us know what you think about this episode or send us an idea! This Episode Is About Quitting. Stay With Us. We've all heard it: "Keep calm and carry on." But what if pushing through isn’t always the brave choice? In this episode of Go Coach Yourself!, Ryan and Vic explore the cultural obsession with grit—and why staying isn’t always strength. They unpack the psychology of sunk cost fallacy, the fear of regret, and the identity crisis that quitting can spark. Then, they share personal storie...

Let us know what you think about this episode or send us an idea! In this episode of 'Go Coach Yourself,' hosts Vic and Ryan discuss the power of believing that No is a complete sentence. Through personal stories and anecdotes, they delve into the reasons why we find it hard to say no without guilt or justification. The episode includes a discussion on the societal inclination to people-please, and gives practical tips on prioritizing yourself. At the end it concludes with a challenge to practic...

Let us know what you think about this episode or send us an idea! In this episode of Go Coach Yourself!, we do something a little different—and a lot more personal. We each brought surprise questions the other hadn’t seen. No prep. No polish. Just curiosity. What unfolded? A conversation that deepened our connection, revealed things we hadn’t shared before, and reminded us how powerful it is to ask better questions. Along the way, we explore: How a cinnamon chocolate chip cake led to a revelat...

Let us know what you think about this episode or send us an idea! Is it possible that life doesn’t come with instructions... but with a studio? In this episode of Go Coach Yourself!, Ryan and Vic explore how creative practices like watercolor, printmaking, mosaics, and ceramics hold powerful metaphors for self-discovery, meaningful connection, and living intentionally. Whether you consider yourself “artistic” or not, this episode invites you to think differently about how you approach identity...

Let us know what you think about this episode or send us an idea! This week, we're joined by the brilliant Dorothy Chang — executive coach, DEI designer, and advisor to organizations like Amazon, Stanford, and the Chan Zuckerberg Initiative. Together, we dive deep into what it means to live and lead intentionally, the hidden structures shaping our workplaces, and why making conscious choices is so challenging (and so necessary). We explore: Why most of our decisions happen unconsciously — and ...